Thursday, May 08, 2008

Patience

It's easier to say than done.

I try to instil patience to my three children, but before I can do that, I have to show them what is patience is all about.

I have to be patience myself, so they can follow me.

But like I said, it's easier to say than done.

A little provocation can make me lose patience.

I have so much to learn to control my anger and zip my mouth.

Astaghfirullah......Astaghfirullah....

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Rina..I hear you abt this.
When I do have to scold them eventually..all the same it leaves me that bitter aftertaste i do not like..hard work mmg la kan,when talking abt being a role model to the kids.I guess,explanation helps to justify our reaction to misbehaviour.Insya'Allah..kita boleh jadik mak mak yg sentiasa sabar dan bijak...amin :)

NoR said...

welcome back to blogging, beb.
i wish i have all the patience esp w my kids....sometimes i just hate myself for saying things that i shldnt,im a loser to syaitan whisper , May Allah gives us strenght and forgive us. Ameen

Anonymous said...

easier said than done ...but nothing is impossible my dear rina kan

patience has limits i know ...anyway tu pun satu perjuangan yg diuji oleh Allah...

Allah SWT dalam Surah az-Zumaar: 10 yang bermaksud, ” Sesungguhnya orang-orang yag bersabarlah sahaja yang akan disempurnakan pahala mereka dengan tidak terkira.”

have a blessed weekend rina...

love u

sis sk

Aryna said...

Sri - Amin to your doa. I have the same feeling too, regret after scolding them. Hopefully we can control our anger better..

Nor - Thanks beb! And you are not alone. Amin to your doa too..

Sis SK - Your comments are are precious to me kak, especially the surah. Thank you for reminding me... Luv you loads kak!!

Anonymous said...

pat ni memang aku slalu tak pass :(
tapi insyaAllah..nothing is impossible kan kg kan kan kan?? hehehe

kk